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DoorMeme
I like a lotta things, did a lotta things, might come back.

FTM

just a weirdo

bi and trans

he/him

Joined on 12/2/19

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Dude. This isn't okay. It's not tolerable. It doesn't matter whether it's real or not, either way it's got to stop. Quit cutting yourself. Get some therapy, talk to your parents.

But your life isn't over yet if you keep on living! Think of how you could live for at least as many years as you have already if you keep going, and you can do anything you want with those years. If it's led up to nothing so far, why not try something new with the next decade? It doesn't have to be a burden. I hope you can see it as a freedom. People may try to keep you down, and to abide by their norm, but we're all different. There's no right or wrong here, there's just a really complex mesh of varying forms of perception and understanding.

It's a shame that's the impression your getting, though I can assure you it's not the whole site. It's just a vocal minority. I really don't mind. I don't hate your art. It might not be what I'd want to look at personally, but I respect you for making what you want to make, and I don't see anything degenerative about it. Art can be anything. You channel your desires. You express yourself. It's supposed to be an outlet, and somewhere out there there's bound to be a bundle of people who desire the same things; are drawn to the same forms of expression. Just might take a while to find 'em.

I really hope you find your calling if you haven't already. If you have, I hope you find some positive things here too, and focus on that over the bad. There's a lot of people here who care for you. Hope you manage to focus on that.

but if I keep living I'll just become one of those dumb creepy guys who sit in their mom's attic jerking off to cartoons while having not showered in 32 weeks

If you don't want to be one of those dudes you really don't have too though. :) It's a free world! I believe in you. You can do anything you set your mind to! Weekly showers at the least. ;)

If there really is a particular problem that's making this all worse btw, like: you can't move out, and you feel like you have to ASAP, then maybe someone could help you with that right now too. Or you could call one of the hotlines about it. They're there to help too.

Good you're still alive. Look, you don't have to kill yourself. I know exactly why you're acting this way. There is no shame in it, but this type of frustration will not go away unless you seek therapy to help you reconcile these repressed feelings. It doesn't even have to be an in person session, due to the pandemic stuff, you could go on Zoom or something to seek therapy that way. What you're feeling is not bad, it's quite normal to have a lust for fictional characters and not having a means to sate that lust. But what isn't normal is letting it make you feel so bad that you want to kill yourself. This kind of thing can be easily treated and with help you may be able to channel those feelings into something more healthy and constructive. You're still young. You have at least decades of experience left to go before you even remotely decide to say "Fuck my life." and end it all. Wait at the very least 15 more years, because 30 is the Hell Period for guys. That's just enough time to get help and develop other problems that make this look tame. You are not a bad person. You're just a kid who is just struggling to find your place in the world and there is plenty of time to do that.

Oh and one more thing. Tom killed FRO-sk's account. FRO-sk can't hurt you anymore.